diff --git a/mobile/lib/screens/new_friends_screen.dart b/mobile/lib/screens/new_friends_screen.dart
index a1bcd69..70380f5 100644
--- a/mobile/lib/screens/new_friends_screen.dart
+++ b/mobile/lib/screens/new_friends_screen.dart
@@ -1,10 +1,15 @@
 import 'package:flutter/material.dart';
 import 'package:flutter_openim_sdk/flutter_openim_sdk.dart';
 
+import '../services/im_service.dart';
 import '../theme.dart';
 import '../widgets/avatar.dart';
 
-/// 「新的同事」：收到的好友申请列表，可接受 / 拒绝
+/// 「新的同事」：收到的 + 我发出的好友申请列表。
+/// 按申请方向渲染（视觉规范 v1 §5.1）：
+/// - 我发出的待处理 → 灰字「等待对方通过」，无操作按钮；
+/// - 我收到的待处理 → 「接受 / 拒绝」按钮组；
+/// - 已同意 → 「已添加」；已拒绝 → 「已拒绝」；失败 → toast 且行保持可重试。
 class NewFriendsScreen extends StatefulWidget {
   const NewFriendsScreen({super.key});
 
@@ -25,10 +30,23 @@ class _NewFriendsScreenState extends State<NewFriendsScreen> {
 
   Future<void> _load() async {
     try {
-      final list = await OpenIM.iMManager.friendshipManager.getFriendApplicationListAsRecipient();
+      // 合并两类申请：我发出的 + 我收到的，按申请时间倒序，待处理在前
+      final results = await Future.wait([
+        OpenIM.iMManager.friendshipManager.getFriendApplicationListAsRecipient(),
+        OpenIM.iMManager.friendshipManager.getFriendApplicationListAsApplicant(),
+      ]);
+      final merged = <FriendApplicationInfo>[
+        ...(results[0] ?? <FriendApplicationInfo>[]),
+        ...(results[1] ?? <FriendApplicationInfo>[]),
+      ];
+      merged.sort((a, b) {
+        if ((a.handleResult ?? 0) == 0 && (b.handleResult ?? 0) != 0) return -1;
+        if ((b.handleResult ?? 0) == 0 && (a.handleResult ?? 0) != 0) return 1;
+        return (b.createTime ?? 0).compareTo(a.createTime ?? 0);
+      });
       if (!mounted) return;
       setState(() {
-        _list = list;
+        _list = merged;
         _loading = false;
         _failed = false;
       });
@@ -41,6 +59,7 @@ class _NewFriendsScreenState extends State<NewFriendsScreen> {
     }
   }
 
+  /// 处理收到的申请：接受 / 拒绝。成功才改状态，失败 toast 保持待处理可重试。
   Future<void> _handle(FriendApplicationInfo a, bool accept) async {
     try {
       if (accept) {
@@ -79,7 +98,13 @@ class _NewFriendsScreenState extends State<NewFriendsScreen> {
           children: [
             const Text('申请列表没加载出来', style: TextStyle(fontSize: AppFont.body, color: AppColors.textPrimary)),
             const SizedBox(height: AppGap.x4),
-            OutlinedButton(onPressed: _load, child: const Text('重试')),
+            OutlinedButton(
+              onPressed: _load,
+              style: OutlinedButton.styleFrom(
+                shape: RoundedRectangleBorder(borderRadius: BorderRadius.circular(AppRadius.button)),
+              ),
+              child: const Text('重试'),
+            ),
           ],
         ),
       );
@@ -96,10 +121,21 @@ class _NewFriendsScreenState extends State<NewFriendsScreen> {
     );
   }
 
+  /// 我发出的申请（fromUserID 是我自己）；否则是我收到的。
+  bool _isOutgoing(FriendApplicationInfo a) {
+    final myID = IMService.instance.currentUserID;
+    return myID != null && a.fromUserID == myID;
+  }
+
   Widget _tile(FriendApplicationInfo a) {
-    final name = a.fromNickname?.isNotEmpty == true ? a.fromNickname! : (a.fromUserID ?? '');
-    final isPending = a.handleResult == 0;
-    final showButtons = isPending;
+    final outgoing = _isOutgoing(a);
+    // 我发出的显示对方（to），我收到的显示申请人（from）
+    final name = outgoing
+        ? (a.toNickname?.isNotEmpty == true ? a.toNickname! : (a.toUserID ?? ''))
+        : (a.fromNickname?.isNotEmpty == true ? a.fromNickname! : (a.fromUserID ?? ''));
+    final isPending = (a.handleResult ?? 0) == 0;
+    // 只有「我收到的待处理」才显示操作按钮；我发出的待处理只显示状态字
+    final showButtons = isPending && !outgoing;
     // 窄屏（<360）时按钮组换到第二行右对齐，避免挤压姓名区
     final narrow = MediaQuery.sizeOf(context).width < 360;
 
@@ -113,6 +149,7 @@ class _NewFriendsScreenState extends State<NewFriendsScreen> {
             backgroundColor: AppColors.primary,
             minimumSize: const Size(60, 32),
             padding: const EdgeInsets.symmetric(horizontal: AppGap.x3),
+            shape: RoundedRectangleBorder(borderRadius: BorderRadius.circular(AppRadius.button)),
           ),
           child: const Text('接受', style: TextStyle(fontSize: AppFont.sub)),
         ),
@@ -122,6 +159,7 @@ class _NewFriendsScreenState extends State<NewFriendsScreen> {
           style: OutlinedButton.styleFrom(
             minimumSize: const Size(60, 32),
             padding: const EdgeInsets.symmetric(horizontal: AppGap.x3),
+            shape: RoundedRectangleBorder(borderRadius: BorderRadius.circular(AppRadius.button)),
           ),
           child: const Text('拒绝', style: TextStyle(fontSize: AppFont.sub)),
         ),
@@ -129,11 +167,12 @@ class _NewFriendsScreenState extends State<NewFriendsScreen> {
     );
 
     Widget statusText;
-    if (a.handleResult == 1) {
+    if ((a.handleResult ?? 0) == 1) {
       statusText = const Text('已添加', style: TextStyle(fontSize: AppFont.sub, color: AppColors.textSecondary));
-    } else if (a.handleResult == -1) {
+    } else if ((a.handleResult ?? 0) == -1) {
       statusText = const Text('已拒绝', style: TextStyle(fontSize: AppFont.sub, color: AppColors.textSecondary));
     } else {
+      // 待处理：我发出的显示「等待对方通过」，我收到的走按钮组（showButtons）
       statusText = const Text('等待对方通过', style: TextStyle(fontSize: AppFont.sub, color: AppColors.textSecondary));
     }
 
@@ -164,15 +203,23 @@ class _NewFriendsScreenState extends State<NewFriendsScreen> {
                     style: const TextStyle(fontSize: AppFont.sub, color: AppColors.textSecondary),
                   ),
                 ],
-                if (narrow && showButtons) ...[
+                // 窄屏：按钮组 / 状态字换到第二行右对齐，不挤压姓名区
+                if (narrow) ...[
                   const SizedBox(height: AppGap.x2),
-                  Align(alignment: Alignment.centerRight, child: buttonGroup),
+                  Align(
+                    alignment: Alignment.centerRight,
+                    child: showButtons ? buttonGroup : statusText,
+                  ),
                 ],
               ],
             ),
           ),
+          // 非窄屏：状态区固定 132px 不压缩
           if (!narrow)
-            SizedBox(width: 132, child: Align(alignment: Alignment.centerRight, child: showButtons ? buttonGroup : statusText)),
+            SizedBox(
+              width: 132,
+              child: Align(alignment: Alignment.centerRight, child: showButtons ? buttonGroup : statusText),
+            ),
         ],
       ),
     );
diff --git a/mobile/lib/theme.dart b/mobile/lib/theme.dart
index fbb5bed..3e576a7 100644
--- a/mobile/lib/theme.dart
+++ b/mobile/lib/theme.dart
@@ -75,6 +75,20 @@ class AppGap {
   static const double x12 = 48;
 }
 
+/// 圆角常量（视觉规范 v1 §2：按钮/输入框/列表项 = 8，弹窗 = 12，气泡 = 8）
+class AppRadius {
+  AppRadius._();
+
+  /// 按钮 / 输入框 / 列表项
+  static const double button = 8;
+
+  /// 弹窗
+  static const double modal = 12;
+
+  /// 气泡
+  static const double bubble = 8;
+}
+
 /// 统一的主题
 ThemeData buildAppTheme() {
   return ThemeData(